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As a child, am i weird for feeling suffocated in my own home?
I am a 19 y.o girl who live with my parents in 55 m2 square house with 2 bedrooms. It was a small house indeed, and recently i just realized that somehow i start to feel really suffocated due to lack of privacy.
My parents didn't have good relationship because of my dad who used to have several extra marital affairs and now my mom refused to sleep in the same room with my father and force me to sleep with her in the same bed room.
As a young adult, i feel that i need my own privacy. It's not mean that i'm gonna doing any inappropriate things, but sometimes i really want to be alone in my room, lying on my bed and using my laptop in the night. Or sometimes i wish that nobody will talk to me when i was tired of talking. But it was impossible because of my parents presence.
When i want to singing, i even go to the kitchen because my parents was rare to be there and was too afraid for singing with loud voice and my parents might hear it and they will commented about it. When i was trying to exercise at home, it was impossible because my mom stay in my room and sometimes my dad will come to his bedroom and go out to the living room. I don't want they commented about what i'm doing.
Moving out of my parents home isn't a choice. My dad is very protective and didn't let me to live apart from them unless i married to someone.
What should i do? Am i weird for feeling 'suffocated'?
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- Anonim2 tahun yang laluJawaban Favorit
'Moving out of my parents home isn't a choice."
Of course you have this choice. Right now, it might not be possible because you rely on them financially, but at 19, you can leave if you figure out a way to make enough money. People your age do this all the time.
It's not weird to feel suffocated at your age, but now you have the power to change things if it's that bad.
- Anonim2 tahun yang lalu
you need to move out end of story!
- AmbistomaLv 72 tahun yang lalu
That is not weird at all. I can't tell what country you live in, but is there someone like a minister or some other adult your parents respect who can intervene or mediate? In the U.S. of past eras, single women would live in boarding houses run by trusted matrons; does your community have anything like that?
It is reasonable for you to have space of your own. That might mean installing a curtain into your room or someone sleeping in the living room.
- Anonim2 tahun yang lalu
You are NOT a child at the age of 19! Young soldiers aged 16 and 17 signed up and fought for their country back in 1914! Many of them lost their lives, unfortunately!
What I am saying is that you are acting as if you are a HELPLESS CHILD - you are scared and lacking confidence to leave home! "What should I do?" you ask- I suggest that you get a job, save up, move out and get a bedsit/flat to call your own, then you will be able to "sing" out loud to your hearts content and have your laptop on in bed. Somehow I feel that you will remain with your parents as you have no real desire to get up and leave!
- RosalieLv 72 tahun yang lalu
This is nature's way of telling you to leave the nest. You're an adult.
Go get yourself a job and an apartment you share with some other young adults.
- Anonim2 tahun yang lalu
Wait 2 more years and then you can move out.
- Anonim2 tahun yang lalu
Grow up. Stand up for yourself, get a job, move out. They're smothering you.
- Anonim2 tahun yang lalu
sgiicgga
- ZedLv 62 tahun yang lalu
You are outgrowing your house and need to move out. Its called becoming an adult .
I feel sorry for your mum having a man like that in her house. Maybe when you move away she will kick him out . Once a cheat always one.
